Setting Sail on a New Adventure
Let me start with this: I never considered myself a “cruise girly.” In fact, past family cruises left me feeling like I was stuck in a floating prison. I like to think that I’m not too card to please since I am always open to either a luxury vacation or an affordable getaway. But when Virgin Voyages invited me and my best friend Shelby to experience the Resilient Lady’s inaugural 5-day cruise from Miami to Costa Maya and Cozumel, I decided to give cruising one more shot. Spoiler alert: this ship completely changed my perspective.
From Michelin-star-level dining to jaw-dropping live shows and a modern, chic vibe, this wasn’t just a cruise—it was the best girls trip. If you’re an older Gen Z or young millennial woman of color like me, read on for everything you need to know about making the most of this unforgettable experience.
Highlights of the Cruise: Why Resilient Lady Stands Out
1. Virgin Voyages Dining Will Blow Your Mind
Forget about soggy buffet lines—Virgin Voyages dining is redefining cruise dining. The ship features multiple restaurants designed by Michelin-star chefs. Each meal felt like a fine dining experience. The service was top-tier, and the variety of cuisines made every night a culinary adventure.
One night, we had sushi so fresh it, I swear they caught it on the way out. I was indulging on sushi and macaroons from the Galley most afternoons. Another evening, we dined at a restaurant that felt straight out of my favorite lucury brunch spots, The Wake is perfect for brunch and dinner options. Pro tip: If they offer a dinner show with an extra charge, go for it. We sat in the front row, and it was worth every penny—an immersive experience filled with fun performances and endless drinks (yes, included drinks!).
Curious about the specific dishes and restaurants I loved the most? Check out my YouTube video, where I share my absolute favorite Virgin Voyages dining spots on the Resilent Lady.
Pro Tip: Book your brunch at The Wake for the morning of Disembarkment
2. Entertainment Galore
This ship is packed with activities. From jaw-dropping stage shows to themed parties, there’s always something happening. On any Virgin cruise, don’t forget to bring your scarlet outfit for Scarlet Night onboard the ship. for us it was night 3 and it was an evening back full with events so get ready! Shelby and I tried to hit as many events as possible, and the energy was unmatched.
One night, we found ourselves dancing at a show in the Manor, and the next, we were gasping at acrobatic feats during a live performance in the Red Room. There’s truly something for everyone, so plan ahead and book your must-see shows early on your agenda to keep track.
3. Proposals Everywhere!
No exaggeration—we witnessed five proposals during this trip. Something about the romantic sunsets over the ocean and dreamy ship vibes made love bloom. If you’re traveling with your partner, this cruise could be the perfect backdrop for a memorable proposal. And if you’re single, like me and Shelby, it’s equally entertaining to watch love in action while sipping champagne.
FAQs About Virgin Voyages
Is Virgin Voyages Really Different From Other Cruise Lines?
Yes! Unlike traditional cruise lines, Virgin Voyages feels fresh, unconventional, diverse and luxurious. The ship is designed for adults only, and the vibe is more like a boutique hotel than a traditional cruise.
Are drinks included on virgin voyages? What’s Included in the Price?
A lot! Your fare includes:
- All Virgin Voyages dining (no additional charge for specialty restaurants!)
- Basic drinks like coffee, tea, and filtered water
- Wi-Fi
- Fitness classes
- Gratuities
- Shows
Additional charges apply for excursions, premium drinks, and some exclusive dining experiences.
Pro Tip: If it fits in your budget and you want a VIP experience, get the rockstar package. Virgin gave us a chance to experience their private Richard’s lounge but it also comes with so much more.
Is It Worth Skipping the Excursions?
Absolutely! If you’re on a budget, skip the pricey shore excursions and enjoy the amenities onboard. Shelby and I stayed on the ship while docked at Costa Maya , indulging in the incredible food and pools. Trust me, there’s plenty to do on the Resilient Lady without spending extra.
For Cozumel we booked the clear kayak, snorkeling and beach excursion through Shore Things in The Virgin App and it was about $65/ person and well worth it for the content lol. See more on my Youtube.
How Does Virgin Voyages Cater to Women of Color?
From the inclusive atmosphere to the diverse staff and entertainment, Virgin Voyages creates a space where women of color and the LGBTQ+ community feel seen and celebrated. As a Black woman, I loved the curated vibe—it was stylish, welcoming, and full of people ready to have fun.
Tips for Making the Most of Your Cruise
1. Pack for the Vibe
This isn’t your typical cruise. Bring outfits for chic dinners, poolside lounging, and themed parties. Think Instagram-ready but comfortable.
2. Book Shows in Advance
Popular shows fill up quickly. Use the Virgin Voyages app to book your must-see performances as soon as you get on the boat.
3. Indulge in the Extras
Some experiences, like the dinner show, come with an extra charge but are totally worth it. Treat yourself—you’re on vacation!
4. Stay Connected (Thanks, Free Wi-Fi!)
One of my favorite perks was the free Wi-Fi. It let me stay in touch with family and friends back home without extra fees. I did end up purchasing the premium package for easier access to streaming to see some of my patients/
5. Give Yourself Permission to Relax
Five nights was the perfect amount of time for me. I’m not sure I’m ready for a week-long cruise just yet, but this experience left me open to future adventures on the high seas.
Final Thoughts: Is Virgin Voyages Worth It?
If you’re on the fence about cruising, Virgin Voyages might just change your mind like it did mine. The Resilient Lady offers a luxurious, fun, and completely refreshing take on cruising. Whether you’re celebrating with your best friend (shoutout to Shelby!) or looking for a romantic getaway, this trip is an adventure you won’t forget.
So here’s to opening yourself up to new experiences, indulging in amazing food, and dancing the night away at sea. Who knows? Maybe you’ll even witness a proposal or two!
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